Dating – What He Means by "Not Ready" for Commitment

You’ve been dating for weeks, or months, or maybe even years.  You might share dinners, weekends, or even a home.  However, whenever you raise the subject of marriage, he says something like, “Quit pushing me. I’m not ready.”

That’s a big warning sign.  The relationship isn’t over, but you might wake up one morning and discover that he’s met someone else.

The really demoralizing moment is when you see how quickly he got engaged (and maybe married) to her.

You wonder what was wrong with you.  What was so much better about her, that he was eager to commit… and so quickly?

Long conversations with the mirror won’t help.  Nor will well-meaning assurances by friends that “he wasn’t good enough for you, ” and “you can do better.”

If you don’t learn what makes men tick, you’re going to go through this over and over again.  You need to learn the secret that the other women know..

. the ones who steal the guys out from under a long-term relationship, and actually get the guy to the altar.

It’s not about you.  It’s about him.  When you look for the answer in yourself or in his new girlfriend/wife, you’re looking in the wrong place.

I didn’t know that before I learned about the Girl Gets Ring system.

The answer was there, all along, and I didn’t see it, even when it was staring me in the face.

Really, it’s not about you.  It’s about him.  I can’t say that strongly enough.

Also, it has far less to do with you and how much he did (or didn’t) love you, and everything to do with something he needed but didn’t know how to ask for.  In fact, he probably didn’t know what was missing… but the next girlfriend did.  (And I’m not talking about sex or even sex appeal.)

To be perfectly blunt, any woman will have an unfair advantage when she understands the four core feelings that drive men into (or away from) marriage.

Without that information, it’s like playing the lottery.  You might win, but it’s far more likely that you won’t.

I’ve read a lot of self-help books.  I’ve also studied psychology and tried to understand why men seem so commitment-phobic.

Seriously, what kind of complete jerk says to his friends “Why would I buy the cow when I can get the milk for free?”  or jokes “Marriage is an institution, and I’m not ready for an institution.”

That’s a guy who has a huge, gaping hole inside and he doesn’t know how to fill it.

When the girl comes along who understands that, and helps him connect with the four core feelings he must have to feel intimacy on a deep level… he’s going to feel complete, and rush her into marriage so fast, his friends will gasp in amazement.

If you want to be that girl — the one who connects with her guy immediately, and never has to deal with him saying “I’m just not ready” — I can’t recommend anything more than the Girl Gets Ring system.

It’s the only one I’ve seen that finally explains that men really do want commitment.   They do want a deep connection.  And, they crave intimacy on a deep level far beyond anything physical.

And, it’s the only system I’ve seen that can help you see results in days… not weeks or months.

If you’re ready to stop beating yourself up over failed relationships, and you want to finally have a loving relationship that not only works, it lasts for a lifetime, I recommend the Girl Gets Ring system.  It’s the only one I’ve seen that’s honest.